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More Soft Curves
Kelly LaVallie Kelly LaVallie

More Soft Curves

Reconnecting with my femininity. Funny. Passionate. Intuitive. Sexy. Nurturing. Comforting. Provider of soul food. Loving. Creative. Less hard edges. More soft curves.

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Money Matters
Kelly LaVallie Kelly LaVallie

Money Matters

When I was 12 years old, I wanted to be rich. Other little girls had posters of boybands in their room and I had posters of Porsches. I didn't grow up poor, but we weren't rolling in dough. Road trips and camping instead of flights and hotels. Relative to the rest of the world, super lucky. But I wanted more.

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Object and Subject
Kelly LaVallie Kelly LaVallie

Object and Subject

I have treated my body like an object, a thing. A life-sized doll to shape, pluck, wax, exfoliate, moisturize.

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Girl Gone Wild
Kelly LaVallie Kelly LaVallie

Girl Gone Wild

When I was a kid, I associated anger with losing control. People gone wild. I did not like wild. I liked predictable, safe, and secure. I decided that I could achieve a predictable, safe, and secure life if I was in complete control.

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Damaged Goods
Kelly LaVallie Kelly LaVallie

Damaged Goods

I am damaged goods. Sort of like the Velveteen Rabbit except not as sweet. I am battered, ripped and stained. And real. I am damaged goods and I mean that in the nicest possible way.

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